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Hi Amanda
It’s been several months and I’m still reaping
the benefits of the day spent with you. The clothes that we
eliminated from my wardrobe have not been missed at all, and
it feels good to have cleaned out that unnecessary excess,
that will unlikely build up again now that I have a better
idea of what works for me.
The advice you gave me on clothing, shoes, glasses, hair, makeup
has been invaluable. I now have far fewer clothes and find
it much easier to select outfits for whatever the occasion.
The hair stylist you referred me to, specialize in curly hair,
and does a very nice job with my hair. I’ve been back
several times now. I highly recommend her to anyone with curly
hair. The makeup artist helped me clean out my makeup and brings
it up-to-date with more flattering products and tools. He also
did an amazing job on my eyebrows.
Susan L Graphic Designer
I have been *so* pleased with
the results. My entire
family was bowled over by my appearance at the wedding.
I've lost track of the positive comments I've received from
coworkers and friends ("you go, girl", "diva"
etc!) I've really tried to dress as we discussed for
work everyday as well as out. My new hair and
makeup are great. I'm feeling more confident shopping
for new outfits based on things we discussed. And I'm
wearing heels to work almost every day(!) -- I think they
take 5 lbs. off instantly! I'm just about to start trying
internet dating and think I have new-found confidence in
my appearance and attractiveness that's going to make it
much less scary.
Sara Cohen, Entrepreneur
Princeton, NJ
Four hours with you changed my life! As for my progress,
everyone notices the difference. You were right about
everything. Twenty minutes in the morning, outfits that
match, accessories that go, makeup. It changes
one's whole outlook, and (the aggravating part) it's really
not that difficult.
You're a good teacher and what
you told me was easy to follow, and remarkably consistent.
Also, I could have read ten books about dressing and
not have understood them the way you showed me what you
were talking about. There is so much to learn,
I had no idea.
I continue to weed out my wardrobe
and free myself from the tyranny of ugly, ill-fitting clothes.
My favorite of your rules: capri pants usually don't look
good on short people. I've saved hours that would have
otherwise been spent trying on capri pants and pants
with decorations at the bottom. I've also decided given
my past history of pink abuse, not to try on anything in that
color, even if it is the dustiest, duskiest pink in the world.
I'm trying to Just Say No to pink for a while. I'm
wearing blue, green, and brown and the world is a better
place for it.
I always felt as if I was the
exception to every fashion rule, that clothes don't and won't
look good on me, that I shouldn't wear makeup, and I
am so appreciative that you were able to show me that is not
the case. I'm hoping the summer will bring enough work
to justify hiring you again in the fall to work on my winter
wardrobe. Thank you for everything. Really!
Becky Rosen, Attorney
Westbury, NY
I have received some feedback on
my new look, comments have ranged anywhere from have you
lost weight (didn't know I had to), did I get a raise (I
wish), do I have a new girlfriend (no), and this morning
one of my colleagues asked me if I had been "queer eyed" (I
think this was meant as a compliment but I'm not 100% sure). So
all in all I would say this has been a successful start.
THANKS !
Mark Evans, NT architect
Greenwich, CT
The reason I chose to hire an image consultant was that I
wasn't meeting men and at work, I wasn't getting the promotions
I thought I deserved. Frankly, I was feeling passed over in
all areas of my life. That had not been the case at other
points in my life and I wasn't willing to believe that in
my late forties, I had become invisible. I had, of course,
begun to notice lines on my face and have become more vigilant
about my diet and exercise. As a petite woman who never really
enjoyed shopping, I simply relied on a few brands that I found
in department stores. There wasn't really anything that you
could say about my style, mostly because I didn't have one.
My clothes were conservative and ho-hum. My haircut was washed
out from improper coloring. My make-up looked so non-existent
that even my dermatologist asked if I ever wore any even when
I thought I was fully made-up. My posture was lousy and my
demeanor intense....certainly not an image to attract men
or career opportunities.
I hired Elena to help with my
wardrobe and appearance but I found that the real benefit
of working with her has been the boost to my self-esteem and
subsequently the confidence with which I carry myself. As
I've told my friends, family and colleagues, I believe that
my decision to work with Elena is probably one of the best
decisions I've ever made. It has certainly made a difference
in how I interact with people, and what could be more important?
I must admit that I was nervous
to even think of talking about my appearance with someone
who might actually tell me the truth! Rather than spending
time weeding through a wardrobe that had no potential, Elena
went shopping with me and helped put together a wardrobe that
is both stylish and a great fit. She provided recommendations
for hairdresser, colorist, consultants for eyebrows, skin
care and make-up and a cosmetic dentist. I knew that Elena
would provide suggestions based on her own sense of style
but I was pleasantly surprised that she was able to impart
some skills to me so that I know what works for me. I was
also very appreciative of the grace and gentleness with which
she made recommendations.
I know that this "new me" is
working I smile more and people notice me. I'm happier and
more relaxed. I never knew that improving my image would
have such and impact....I should have done this sooner!
Patricia, VP Financial Services
Marketing
New York City
Sometimes you get stuck in a "funk." The people close to you, friends, relatives,
etc., are either too polite or near too you to observe that
your "style" needs a radical overhaul. My problem
was that I was stuck in a time warp, dressing the same way
I did in high school 25 years ago, looking like I just walked
out of the L.L. Bean catalogue. A style not very conducive
to dealing with demanding New York City Women!
Elena and I first met in a Greek
coffee shop. Pretty quickly, I could see that she had
her artistic sense of what needed to be done. Upon her
first visit to my wardrobe, a sizable percent of my old clothing
became a nice parcel for the Salvation Army. We went
to some sort of "Sample sale" for Paul Stuart. I
didn't have much of an idea what to do; it didn't matter. Elena
was burrowing in and out, having me try on this and that,
forming the foundation of my new wardrobe. I wear everything
except the black shoes. I still cannot quite transcend
my preppy penny loafers. Nobody's perfect, I guess.
Another visit to my closet and
more clothes went flying. Elena's assistant wrote down
photographed the different clothing and color combinations,
which I have posted on my closet door. Then we went to
the opticians to buy a new set of glasses. Elena said
that she wanted people, i.e., women, to see my green eyes:
you have to accentuate the positive.
Finally, the piece de la resistance. Elena
wanted me to grow my hair longer, with more wave and bounce. I
must confess that at first I did not recognize myself. I
noticed suddenly that a lot of women were looking at me on
the street (and I do mean a lot). My mother swears that
she is eternally grateful. Style is the man!
Richard, Scientist Entrepreneur
New York, NY
You have given me such a practical
yet sophisticated education in style. Now I have the
knowledge I need to kick-start my mid-life adventures. I am
enjoying my new hair, make-up and clothes. A little bit of
style goes a long way and subtle accessorizing is magical.
The real difference is in my renewed confidence. I am proud
of my curvy size 8 body and it shows. Because of your advice,
I have more confidence and that confidence glows from within.
People sense it and "it" is attractive. Being a
married woman, it is sort of strange to have men whistle
at me but, it now happens almost every day. Really. What
is special about what you provide is your strong sense of
style coupled with sincerity, gentleness and heart: like
a loving big sister willing to share all her fashion and
beauty secrets. You have excellent taste and you practice
what you preach. You really ought to have a daily TV show.
Lots of women, of all ages and walks of life need mentors
like you.
My love and admiration,
Lisa Garcia Jacobson, Human Resource Executive
Tampa, FL
I have been working with Elena
to improve my wardrobe and overall appearance. She quickly
developed an amazing insight into my personal style and needs
for business and social settings. Elena is enthusiastic
about her work, making the process exciting and fun. Her
ability to find new uses for items in my existing wardrobe
exceeded my expectations. In shopping for new pieces,
Elena saved time and money by knowing where to find exactly
what was needed. She taught me to select ensembles that
are either classic or contemporary, easy to mix-and-match
and versatile from day to evening. Elena knows how to
complete the look with hairstyling and other cosmetic touches. The
information and skills Elena provided have increased my confidence,
saving time each time I dress. These improvements have
caused colleagues and strangers to ask where I shop for clothes,
and friends to compliment my more youthful look and style. I
am sure Elena will do the same for you.
Daniel, Physician Hospital
Chairman
Boston, MA
I didn't wear gym clothes shopping,
but instead, wore black pants, duster, suede checked purse,
with a light purple thinly ribbed silk sweater that I forgot
I had, with a few pieces of sparkly jewelry that were sitting
unworn. I was stopped on the street by a very well dressed,
6' 2" ish, 40-ish, handsome, educated man, who seemed
extremely sweet, asked me out, told me I was adorable, and
said he would call.
So, it was either the outfit,
or some sort of confidence from feeling put together, but
I now see some of the merits of actually getting dressed
when I leave the house.
At any rate, I thought I would
share that little story with you. Thank you!
BTW, I found pointy (VERY pointy
for me) black suede boots at Bloomingdales. They zip but
are very leg hugging. But not like yours... I'll keep
looking, but the suede non-zip boots, everywhere, had HIDEOUS
tassels, stitching, embroidery, and other doodads ruining
them. I also found black and brown suede (maybe not quite
as pointy as you suggested -- tip diameter is 1") high
and thinly healed pumps at Aldo, that I think I can get a
lot of use out of.
Lastly, I noticed that the way
I am looking at clothing displays has changed. I feel like
I know enough-or at least am more confident, to be able to
pay attention and process what I see--shiny silk under suede,
dusters over slim pants (Banana Republic), etc., and can learn
from that too. You are an expert at what you do and provide
exactly what you market yourself as being able to do. So,
it is rather easy for me to want to let others know. I'll
speak to you soon about setting up something for next month.
So, again, I really did find
your consultations helpful.
Dr. Marie Long, Physician
New York, NY
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